1. If you are a JW playing video games on a casual or serious online basis, you are doing so on the "very down low" This is not information you want the congregation to be aware of, as it will generate much judgement and gossip. (i don't even need to elaborate)
2. JW gamers have a separate code of ethics than the gossiping congregation. It is a covert fraternity. Disfellowshipped, disassociated and inactive are not outcast, in fact often times they are embraced.
3. JW gamers are anonymous, and any accusations levied against them are to be met with, "deny, deny, deny"
4. If you give up your covert position, you are by code of ethics not to give up anyone else.
5. There are elders in their 40s that engage in the gaming community with all those mentioned above.
6. The gaming community is not the only underground clique amongst active JWs.
7. The gaming community where active JWs engage with former JWs is not huge. You are talking about 10-20 per circuit.
8. Nearly every online gaming choice of active JWs would be derided by the organization and any given BOE. Thus the reason for the covert nature of the specific gaming groups.
9. Over a 10 year period, I know personally at least a dozen active JW gamers who ultimately left the WT organization and find support with their online gamer community.
The gamer in the opening post and his gamer friends will be fine. They know how to CYA.